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Non Nobis Solum

2/15/2015

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I had the most awesome delivery yesterday and I am so proud I just need to share it.  
Non Nobis Solum is the slogan for Kamp Kanawana meaning "Not For Ourselves Alone".

A big part of who I am comes from 10 years at working at YMCA summer camps.  I began as a camp counselor at Kamp Kanawana in St. Sauveur and it opened up my whole world.  The most important thing we were taught during our staff training was MMFI, which meant "Make Me Feel Important".  That was how we were meant to treat each and every camper.  Not only did we encourage campers to gain self-confidence through outdoor skills such as canoeing, sailing, archery, etc., but what we gave by teaching and caring and laughing with them, we gained back tenfold.  The campers and staff helped me to grow out of my shell and become who I am today.  Camp was also where I learned how to live in the moment thanks to Bruce Netherwood's "Chiefs Talk".  I'll never forget when he said that we often miss out on the now by looking around the corner at what's next in our lives, and thinking "that's what I do!".  I also remember him saying that any one of us could be camp director and I thought that was way out of my reach, how cool that he said that, and I did it!  I went from a shy new staff member to growing into Junior Girl, and then Senior Girl Section Director.  I remember my last summer at University, thinking that I needed to get a "real job", which felt really depressing (ugh, society!), thank goodness I changed my mind, I just couldn't give up what I loved and though I almost lost my chance by waiting too long, Bruce hired me back.  The next summer, Bruce moved to Cape Cod to become Executive Director of the South Shore YMCA Camps Hayward & Burgess.  I had just graduated from University and had no idea what I was going to do with my Art History degree!  I gave Bruce a call to see how the move went, and lo and behold he offered me a job to become Landsports Director.  With my good friend Karl I then became CIT director (counselor-in-training) and we had so much fun bonding with a group of crazy 16 year-olds!  After a winter in Banff and a winter in Bristol, England, I was then hired full-time as Assistant Director and finally Camp Hayward Director.  
To receive "The Giving Tree" Award is such an honour and I am thrilled. 
If you are interested, I have posted pictures from my time at both camps on the gallery page.
Special shout out to all of my amazing friends who were camp staff with me at such a joyous time in my life.  I wish I could tell you in person how much you mean to me, still after so many years, you helped me live to the fullest.

Awesome Things About Camp:
  • All-Camps (especially Grease Day)
  • Lumberman & Voyageurs (I was Bossman in 1991)
  • Opening & Closing Campfires
  • Canoe Trips (I went on a 6 day exploratory, where I learned the J-Stroke)
  • Overnights
  • Cheers!
  • Section Meetings
  • Capture the Flag
  • Douse the Fire
  • Around the Lake Relay
  • Green Triangle
  • Section Meetings & Section Nights Out
  • Sailing, Canoeing, Archery, Rockclimbing, Frisbee Golf, Drama
  • Post Camp
  • Sneak Outs to Chiefs Cabin & Making Rice Krispie Squares
  • Camp Songs
  • Nature Walks
  • Candlelight Canoeing
  • Tug-O'-War
  • Star Gazing
  • Polar Bear Dip
  • Kanawoodstock
  • Paint the Counselor
  • Rockclimbing
  • High Ropes, including Zip Line where I got to spend the day throwing kids out of a tree!
  • Pre-Camp Training
  • Outdoor Education & Teambuilding
  • Canoeing to Work
  • Mission Impossible
  • Karaoke
  • Mariners & Pioneers (I helped to found the games at Burgess/Hayward)
  • Announcements, Announcements, Announcements
  • Grace
  • Coffee House
  • Horseback Riding
  • Beach Day
  • International Staff
  • Specialty Camp (I taught Rollerblading!)
  • Camp Dances
  • The anticipation of the first day of the session with the campers arriving
  • It was cool to be different and be yourself
  • The bond between campers & staff




8 Comments
Heather
2/15/2015 09:30:08 am

Love it all.

Just like your beautiful paddle, another tangible memento of the enormous impact you gave - and got - from K/Camp. Congratulations; so well deserved.

Smiling thinking about visiting you at both xxoo

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mom sharman
2/17/2015 02:02:07 am

So happy and proud of you. Still remember the "lost" swimmer.
The pool party here for your camp mates and you and Laurie throwing your POOR mother into the pool FULLY DRESSED!!!!

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Kate
2/21/2015 11:55:44 am

Your life is so rich. There is so much to you and so many wonderful memories and history of your amazingness that I look forward to learning about.

You have touched so many lives !

If there was an award for each life you have blest, your home would be overflowing with trophies and plaques!

I'm so blest to be coming to hang out with the kindest girl in the world.

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Brittany
2/23/2015 05:56:35 am

Congrats!!! What a beautiful recognition of all the amazing work you've done. A Lifetime Achievement award, an Oscar...what's next?!

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Katie Jones
4/8/2015 05:24:34 am

Carol - I am just reading this blog for the first time and of course recognized the picture of the Giving Tree Award. At some point in the early 90s my camp adventure also began... You (and your sweet pooch - I forget his/her name) are probably one of my first memories of my camp years. A wonderful person and a wonderful place. You changed so many girl's lives in your time on the Cape. Hugs.

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Mark Shapiro
4/2/2016 09:26:46 am

The Eagles thank the lord for the mountains the fish thank the lord for the sea and we thank the lord for the goodness of what we are about to receive. Please send me notice or post on your blog .wav .flac or.mp3 with lyrics of mess hall grace before meals and campfire cheers. A round of applause, not for ourselves alone.

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Paulina Sklivas
5/15/2016 07:47:08 pm

Yes!! Don't forget Johnny Appleseed (although in my time at kamp we sang "oh the earth is good to me..." to keep it non denominational!)

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Paulina Sklivas
5/15/2016 07:44:46 pm

I was a kamper at kanawana from 95-05, and while I didn't participate in staff stuff, I loved reading that beautiful list of all the great stuff at kk. Thanks for the memories! :) non nobis solum

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